When do we know the person is telling the truth or saying lies to you?
This is difficult to understand. Supposedly if saying out the truth will
hurt the person, will you say it? Or saying out the truth will cause everything
that you will build on to collapse, will you say it?
Guess it's really dependent on the circumstances. For me, i rather say the
truth than to let the person knows that i'm lying. Living with lies is tough, as
a lie needs more lies to cover up. Even though truth may hurt, but we gotta
bear with it as this is what that has been done and can never be erased.
I feel that lies may lead to cheat. One lie may lead to another, eventually
to cheating. I believe everybody is bound to have said some lies.
To what extent is a lie good? A white lie? I think that a white lie is good
when it's able to solve certain issues. However, it may not be that effective
if the original lie has been discovered. Difficult to understand?
I'm not sure if this is the correct thinking though.
Who can heal my heart?
No one but my God
Who can take my pain away?
No one but Him
Who can fill the vacuum in my heart?
Only you, my Lord
Who will carry me when i'm down?
Yes, I know You will. My Lord.
God, I need you
More of Your grace and love
More of Your forgiveness
More of Your peace and joy
1 comment:
hiiii pingping.
hmmm we are all human, so we are imperfect and tend to lie from time to time lar. it's true that a white lie is still a lie, but the intentions behind it may be good, and should not be dismissed or doubted.
i agree that one lie may lead to another, but then, you must first question the integrity of the person. it may be a lie said on the spur of the moment, which may not be in line with his/her character. so we needa give him/her the benefit of the doubt.
that said, of course we must turn to God. the Lord's prayer says "forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those we trespass against us". so if God can forgive us time & again, we should try to be like Him, right? He gives us friends and family not for us to give them up so easily, but He expects us to try and try again to make things better.
whatever it is that is making you brood over this, don't give up, and press on! pray hard, and God will work things out! =]
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